Finding a mentor hasn’t been an easy process. First, I changed majors from physics to sociology. I want to be a social worker, NIU doesn’t have a social work program, so I wanted to find someone that would help me and be a good mentor. In total I’ve emailed over 10 possible mentors. I have received emails from 5. I interviewed 4. I listened to all their research projects and they all seemed very interesting. None of them seemed the right fit for me, however.
I want to do a research project that I came up with. The people I interviewed would only have me work on their projects. That’s fine and all, but I have ideas that I want to work with that can help me in my career. I originally decided on understanding the relationships between poverty and education levels, because it is something I am experienced with. None of the mentors had anything to do with that. So I talked to a teacher of Sociology and she gave me a few names to look up and email.
The person I emailed was Dr. Sharp. He is a Sociology Professor that works with qualitative studies about religion and culture. I talked to him about my idea and he asked why I don’t work with something involving what I want to work with: foster kids. Great idea, I thought, why didn’t I come up with that?
Anyway, I finally decided on my research topic after consultation with him: lesbian and gay foster parents and the effects on children. I want to see whether these foster parents are providing the best homes for children. I am going to look up whether the children suffered negatively, or positively because of being placed in their care. I want to understand the social norm associated with gay foster parents.
On the T.V. show Glee, one of the stars (Rachael) was raised by a Jewish gay couple. There seemed to be no negative effects for her, but then again it isn’t reality. I wanted to know the process the couples undergo and if it is any different for gays than heterosexual couples. I know this is a very broad topic, but I will narrow it down as I go along. I figure this will help me immensely in becoming a social worker and placing children into foster homes, without prejudice on what sexual orientation the couple are.